Child protection• awareness| ABBUSE|drug ABBUSE: part2

 Part : 2

Every child matters!

Introduction;

Child abbuse is going on it's peak everyday. Now it is considered as a serious crime , people are getting awareness about it. But there is still need to get those necessary informations that you and your child must know. You can read alot of articles about this gigantic issue but the point is weather you are acting upon all those laws & rights that your child deserve.

Numerics of Child abbuse :

It is observed that the the ratio of child abbuse has been increased by 2%. Over 8 children, one child is under the claws of sexual abbuse . From the report of 2021, the ratio among girls and boys are 47% and 53% respectively. However, from latest report of 2023 , the ratio of girls is 49% and the ratio of boys is 51%. İn just three months, 51 cases has been reported. It is not only from a single part of Pakistan, this represents the entire Pakistan, all four provinces.

Online abbuse:

People must be aware of online abuse. Nowadays online activities have grown to a great extent. Children have an easy access to all social media apps especially the chatting apps. They are unaware of the cruelness of this world and just seeing the shining image of versitality. Online abbuse simply means that a predator reaches innocent people especially children. They give them comfort, try to make them friendly and portraits himself as a well wisher. They start to make jokes , offering them to do their homework , then started sharing pictures and in return they want those children to fulfill their thirst. Children are innocent creatures. They don't know what's happening but they show gestures of irritation. This is the duty of parents to keep check and balance of their devices and their in and out activities. 

Prevention;

Teach your children about the rules of social media. Keep your laptops, computers & all other social media connecting platforms in open places of your houses under your supervision, not in the children's bedrooms. Maintain your check and balance on his social media accounts, it's privacy and keep an eye on the people who are strangers and connected to him through different applications.

Social Abbuse:

There are different kinds of people who are living in your society, around your children and are much involved in your daily activities. Like your drivers, watchman, even though the tutors. They look extremely innocent but some of them are real villains. As they can easily access your child , they can do whatever they want. These people think that they are under your trust. Therefore , they get all of the benefit . So you must be aware of all these kind of people. You must teach your children about strangers and there activities.

School Bullying:

School is a place where parents send there children without any trust issue. But they cannot do anything with the bullying issues which are rising day by day. Children think it an awful thing to get bullied in the school. Even they feel hesitation in telling their parents or they do not find the way how to tell them . Children are bullied because of their body shape, their families, their status, their way of clothing, way of speaking and a lot of minor similar things which are very taunting for children. They also get bullied for their exam results. 

So the only solution is to be in a comfort zone with your children & make them believe that you are their real friends. It's all about the brought, the mindset. From childhood, you must bring your child up in such a way that he feels confident about himself. He must be clear about his thoughts that he is created in a perfect way

 But children are like clay, they are moulded any shape. So relate with their emotions and their activities. They must tell you from their gestures that something is happening wrong.

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Mental disorders:

•Post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)

•Anxiety

•Depression

•Trouble in sleeping

•Nightmares

•Increase in fear 

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Personality disorders:

•Drug addiction

•Alcohol consumption

•Poor school performance

•Anger issues

•Not playing with friends

•Speaking less

•Lack of self esteem

•Not eating properly

•Lack of attachment

•Poor behavior development

•Poor development and growth

•Suicidal thoughts

•Self harm

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Conclusion:

Your child most be your first priority. Excess of belief and excess of independence can ruin his/her life. Make your child awared about the dark side of world . Do not leave a young child at home alone. Stay safe and blessed!